FamilyLife is a non-profit, faith-based, charitable trust committed to building strong marriages and families.

About FamilyLife NZ

“Changed lives; that’s what motivates us.”

FamilyLife NZ has been teaching, training and equipping families for over 25 years. We love hearing stories of husbands, wives, and children whose lives are different because of an interaction with something that we’ve been part of. That’s what we’re about at FamilyLife; to inspire and equip couples to be successfully married for a lifetime.

Our Team

We are a small full-time team in Auckland and work with a nationwide group of men and women committed to changing New Zealand one home at a time. We offer practical help and hope to couples and families through our events and resources. At FamilyLife we are all about strengthening couples so that they can stay successfully married for a lifetime.

If you are interested in joining our team and this cause, please contact us for more information.

Our team is truly committed to bringing help and hope to marriages and families. Many of the team members raise their own salary to be able to carry out this mission. If you would like to invest in our staff, please click on the “GIVE” links below.

Meet the Team

Wynand & Ellré Jacobs

Executive Director / Designer

For as long as Wynand can remember, he’s been passionate about helping people…   

…understand each other. This passion led him to develop as a coach, author, and speaker and when that journey turned into a speciality working with married couples it became apparent that working with the team at FamilyLife would be the perfect “marriage”.

Wynand and Ellré originally hail from South Africa, but when they felt the lead of God to come to Aotearoa in 2017 they were in for the adventure that would shape them into the couple and family they’ve become today. “Dream big and do hard things” is their motto and they’re always ready to trust God to do the impossible through their lives.

On weekends they enjoy beach walks and breakfast at their favourite cafes. Ellré is a professionally trained musician and plays the cello and piano. Wynand plays guitar and occasionally you can still find them performing a guitar & cello duo at weddings and small events.

Nikki Bray

Co-Founding Director

Nikki and her late husband Andy have been the Directors of FamilyLife NZ since 1993…

… Sadly Andy passed away suddenly in June 2018 but she continues to faithfully serve to help build strong families in NZ. They have authored 2 books Treasures in the Darkness and First things First and a family ‘Questions’ resource called Small Talk. In 2008 Nikki was awarded Mother of the Year by TV3 and Kiwi Families. In 2013 they were recipients of the NZ Christian Network “Unsung Heroes Award”, presented at Parliament; in 2014 Nikki was a presenter at the NZ Christian Network bi-centennial celebration at Waitangi;  Nikki continues working with FamilyLife as a speaker, donor management, marriage mentoring and coaching. 

Steve & Leanne Hooper

Events Co-ordinators and Speaker Team
When we attended our first Weekend to Remember getaway in 1994 we realised…

…the incredible value FamilyLife had to offer and wanted to be part of building strong marriages and families in our beautiful country. Shortly afterwards we both left our careers to join the team.

Today we are just as passionate about motivating and equipping couples and are honoured to be mentoring married couples, preparing young couples for marriage, and co-ordinating and speaking at FamilyLife events around Aotearoa. We have two young adult children. Steve is a keen mountain biker and Leanne enjoys tennis and indoor bowls. Together we love camping, a bit of competitive mini golf, and finding a good cafe. Steve and Leanne are both accredited DiSC presenters.

Joy Sharp

Accounting and Office Manager

Joy and her husband Paul have been faithfully supporting FamilyLife NZ for over a…

…decade. Joy diligently looks after our accounts, grant applications and all things relating to making the office a functional and healthy working environment for the team.

“Joyo”, as we call her truly brings joy to the office with her quirky sense of humour and genuine care for each of the team members; always reminding us that it’s time to break for lunch now. “Work hard, but don’t skip lunch” is her motto.

Penny Patterson

Operations Manager

Penny has been in church ministry for over 15 years after she left her corporate career as a…

…Business Analyst to pursue God’s call for her life. Seeing God work miraculously in the lives of people is what she’s all about.

She brings a wealth of experience to the FamilyLife team in her role as Operations Manager. Her focus on process, structure and delivery, along with our philosophy of Constant and Never Ending Improvement (CANEI) means we can work on effectively reaching every home in New Zealand with the help and hope for family and relationships; until every home becomes a Godly home.

Penny brings a delightful and bubbly personality to the office and if she’s not busy having ‘great conversations’ filled with encouragement and hope for couples or volunteers involved in our ministry, you can find her sharing her appreciation for cats and good coffee with us all.

Penny and George (her other half 🙂) also carry a special desire to see blended couples flourish and navigate the complexities that come with doing blended family well.

Chris Milne

Marketing, Communications & Systems Analyst

As our team’s systems, communications and marketing little chief, Chris is a passionate…

…creative that values people, design and good  communication & systems – both internally to staff as well as to those we serve as a ministry through our online marketing efforts.

Outside of work you’ll find Chris & his wife Nadine involved in leading worship together and working with church creative teams to further their mission of the Great Commission.

Joseph & Emma Bailey

Field Staff
We are passionate for Aotearoa to be a land of healthy relationships where…

…couples and families are in unity. We desire to see families rooted in God’s love, growing and deepening their connection with God and each other.

To have a thriving garden you need to pull out weeds, prepare soil and sow good seeds. Likewise, in healthy relationships you need to address issues, communicate clearly and put in the good stuff.

At FamilyLife we want to equip people with the necessary skills to “garden” in this way!

We have personally experienced God’s miraculous restoration in our lives. Our marriage is just one example of how God picks up the broken pieces and transforms them into something beautiful, more than we could ever dream or imagine.

Daryl & Katie Fowles

Field Staff

We want marriages and families in our beautiful country to flourish and thrive. We have personally seen…

…the devastation that occurs in the wake of separated families. When a family is broken, the heartache and fallout can be immense. We want to do everything we can to help families in New Zealand find a better solution than separation or divorce.

Building successful relationships is not easy and that’s why we want marriages and families to be equipped with tools that can help make their relationships thrive.

Our family is passionate about God and relationships!

Join the Team

If you would like to join us here at FamilyLife NZ on our mission to help couples stay successfully married for life, please get in touch by filling out the form below

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